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Conversations that Serve
As followers of Jesus, a fundamental calling we have is to serve others. Jesus was the ultimate Servant and we strive to emulate Him. Usually when I think about ways to serve, my mind first goes to feeding the homeless, or foreign missions, or teaching Bible studies. Sometimes in thinking this way, I overlook the daily opportunities I have to serve.
Have you ever considered conversation as a ministry? The way you listen, the words you say (or don’t say) as a very real and everyday way to serve?
1) Listen. One of the greatest ways we can serve through conversation is to show others they are heard. Philippians 2:3-4 says, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interest of others”. Too often we value what we have to say more than hearing someone else express their views and feelings. It is humility to sacrifice your talking time so that others may have the floor. Serve by asking questions and paying attention to the answers.
2) Build up. Ephesians 4:29 says, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” When someone leaves a conversation with you, will they be filled up with what they need? Serve by providing words of nourishment to help others, whether that’s encouraging, teaching truth, or giving comfort.
3) Give thanks. Philippians 2:14-15 says, “Do all things without grumbling or disputing, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world”. If you listen to any conversation for very long, you’re sure to hear complaining, whether it’s about circumstances or other people. Being thankful sets us apart from the world and shows the light of God to others. Serve by bringing the joy of Christ into conversations.
The next time you’re talking with someone, view your way of navigating conversation as a ministry. You can show the love of Jesus by serving with your ears, your mouth, and your attitude.
